Does anyone have any stories about how practicing emotional intelligence worked for them?

Did you use Active Listening, Conflict resolution, problem solving, assertive communication or any other positive soft skill to your benefit?

I work for a non-profit that deals with Character Education and Social and Emotional Learning and am trying to collect real-life "success stories" that trying to be a better person actually pays off.

Can you share your stories with me? Thanks guys.

Well, it took me years of practice and I am finally getting a good grip on my emotions. I was pitiful, always crying at the drop of a hat if someone gave me any constructive criticism. Blushed if someone told me I was pretty. I knew I had a problem and I think it came from being insecure as a child because I did not have my mother, I had no security in life. Every time I was in a situation I was determined to try as hard as I could to keep a straight face and control my emotions and it has gotten better over time.

Compared: Shoe Shopping & Assertive Communication